Random Thoughts from TasT
And My thoughts on Weight in general......
Published on November 27, 2004 By TasT In Health & Medicine

In recent weeks there has been much tado about the Idolization of skinny chicks, you know, the supermodel type.  Girls out there let it be known we don't want them!  they are interesting to look at but, that's about it. For one thing none of them have any breasts and most of us guys like for our girls to have breasts.  As far as it goes on the other end no we don't want overweight girls either.  Most of us want to see a normal hourglass figure.  A definite difference between the Chest, Waist and hips, if there isn't then get to work.  Eat right, and mix in some exercise of some sort ( this goes for the rail skinny chick too with emphasis on the eat right). Nuff said on that subject.

Now on to what bugs me and really should bug you girls too.  

In the circles I have to socialize ( if you can call it that) with I see too many FAT ( yes, I said FAT) guys with trophy wives or girlfriends. I understand that most of these guys either have truckloads of money or have the imminent potential to have it but, jeeez if your wife/Girlfriend is smokin' hot wouldn't you want to at least be presentable? What's worse is I see it even with regular people, big ol' fat guy with a hottie.  There's just something wrong with that.

Don't you girls put some kind of limits on what you'll put up with? And don't give me the "we love what's inside" trip, you have to be attracted to the guy's appearance first under normal circumstances. Aren't you worried about the guys health? That's my thing, I wouldn't ever date an overweight woman ( If I lost my wife for some reason) because it's just not attractive and I have seen the health problems it causes with my mother and my wife's relatives. High blood pressure, high cholesterol, loss of strength, loss of stamina, depression, diabetes, problems doing simple things such as walking, etc.........

WE have a "FAT" problem in the USA and we need to fix it not make it OK. If you are FAT you need to do something about whether you are male or female. And Girls you need to put some pressure on your men to at least stay at a healthy weight as determined by him and his doctor, not by some BMI index or height/weight chart. Being FAT is not OK and neither is being Rail Skinny. We all need to strive to be somewhere in between, a healthy weight.  Your life depends on it.


BTW I speak after being on both ends of the spectrum. I was way too skinny ( 5'6" and 120 pounds) a few years ago.  So, I started eating properly and was a regular at the gym.  Over 7 years I gained 50 or so healthy pounds. Then 2 years ago I stared back in school and didn't have time for everything, so the gym had to go.  I went from 175  pounds and healthy to 180 and FAT in a matter of about 18 months.  Since then I have squeezed in the time for kayaking and an elliptical trainer that I have and adjusted my diet for my current activity level. I'm now a fairly happy 150.  Though I can't wait for the next year of school to be over so I can get back to the gym......

I know this post kinda wonders here and there, but hey, the Blogs name is TasT's RANDOM Thoughts.


Comments (Page 3)
on Nov 29, 2004
I think it is sad moderateman feels that way as well. It is even sadder that he is largely correct. Unfortunately, most women are shallow and mostly look at financial security in a partner. Most men are similarly shallow and mostly look at appearances. Luckily, there ARE men and women out there who only care about personality, so those ugly women and poor men out there do have a .01% chance of finding someone...

On an unrelated note, TasT bashes "rail skinny" ladies, but LOTS of guys prefer them. I know a couple of ladies fitting that description who are otherwise quite ugly (one actually has buck-teeth), and have men falling over each other to go out with them. Petite ladies are becoming a bit of a rarity here in McUSA. Yes, I know some men, like TasT, prefer a more curvy figure, and a few even prefer "large" women, and that's great, because there's something for everyone.
(following line=joke): Remember, anorexics are just like normal people, only more beautiful!
on Nov 29, 2004

Unfortunately, most women are shallow and mostly look at financial security in a partner.

Where is all this coming from?  Of all the girls I know, maybe 1 or 2 % of them are like that.

I didn't marry my husband for his looks, or his bank balance because he didn't have a pot to piss in when we met.  I married him for HIM. 

I think it's sad that a lot of men think that women are only after them for their bank account and financial assets.

on Nov 29, 2004
he didn't have a pot to piss in when we met.

Yours either, dharmagrl? Mine was renting a closet in his friends' apartment. ROFL!
on Nov 29, 2004
Adrian and I have been together since he was 16, so he had some nice video games and a great fold old out couch. I knew if I stayed with him, those babies would be all mine! Muahahahahahahaha!
on Nov 29, 2004
nice video games and a great fold old out couch

Zombie had some blankets on the floor of the closet and some nice smelling candles I am jealous, Tex
on Nov 29, 2004
TasT, prefer a more curvy figure

Curves are GOOOD!

on Nov 29, 2004
I would never leave my husband because of his physical appearance. His weight could go way up or way down, and he would still be the man I love.

I agree with this, but let me just say that I definetely find him more attractive at a healthy weight than when he starts getting love handles and a double chin....I still love him, but I'm less likely to want to make love if he is getting fat. and I'm sure that it works both ways.
on Nov 29, 2004
I might find myself less physically attracted to him were he to lose 50 pounds or gain a hundred, but he's still my man.

You skipped the next sentence. (above)
on Nov 30, 2004
The reason why hot chicks got a fat guy as a boyfriend is because it's make them hotter. They want to be the center of all the attention. If their bf/significant other is hot, there will be too much competition and she won't be in the limelight. That's all there is.. Let's all get fat so we can be with hot women. Fuck working out and eating right!
on Dec 06, 2004
To me, handsome comes in all shapes and sizes. I have dated very slim guys who I thought of as "slender" and "willowy," and i have dated large-bodied gents and found them appealing. My last boyfriend was large-bodied and i thought he looked cuddly and adorable, and he made me feel cared for, which is more important than anything in a relationship
on Dec 07, 2004
Tast, You need to get a life dude!
on Jan 23, 2005
I agree with rhoss1. I'm going back to the beginning of the conversation if you don't mind.
I, myself am fat 5' 8" 450lbs. and I have a loving girlfriend. She is not really that big at all she's no more than 210 lbs., but she's really beautiful also. There are always other men trying to get with her that are buff bodied six pack GYM dwellers. My point is she doesn't care about my size and she has even told me that she doesn't care how big I get or how much weight I gain. Out of all the beatiful women that I've been friends with only very few soley cared about body type.
on Jan 26, 2005
My point is she doesn't care about my size and she has even told me that she doesn't care how big I get or how much weight I gain.

That's great! However have you thought about the health concerns associated with your weight? I can tell you that from being on both ends of the spectrum that being in the middle is definatly the place to be as far as health is concerned. Your girlfriend may love you no matter what you weight and that is beautiful, however she should be concerned for your health and you should also.
on Feb 26, 2005
I only like skinny and average men I like a guy that eat well and exercise I dont like fat guy's.
on Apr 05, 2005
fuck skinny people!!! i am fat, and my g/f loves me for me. fuck all u stuck up skinny ass motherfuckers. fuck your 30 inch waists. fuck you